My Soulmate almost married another woman.
When I met my husband, we dated for three years. We lived together happily for a while. He even proposed.
But then he suddenly left...
And it wasn’t because we weren’t compatible.
In fact, one of my astrology mentors had pronounced our astrological compatibility the GREATEST HE’D SEEN in twenty-nine years of doing readings!
But that didn’t matter.
It didn’t matter that my Venus was conjunct his Moon and Jupiter, two of the most romantic, “true love” connections two charts can have.
It wasn’t enough that his Venus was in the same sign as my Mars, which gave us smoking hot chemistry.
It wasn’t sufficient that our Moon signs were in the position of partnership, making us have what ancient astrological texts on marriage and compatibility deem one of the best combinations for “Abundance, agreement, and special happiness.”
And do you know why?
Because I made DANGEROUS HUMAN MISTAKES in how I RELATED to him that drove him away.
That’s right – despite all the planets and stars smiling upon us, I had screwed up a truly blessed, “meant to be” relationship, and lost him...
And it was all because of things I DID and SAID that were entirely IN MY CONTROL... and my poor behavior was enough to block the power of our harmonious astrological charts.
And I simply had no clue what I was doing. It seemed so innocent – and like I was just trying to communicate with him. I mean, we all know you’re SUPPOSED to communicate in a relationship, right?
I just didn’t realize I was doing so in a relationship-crushing, love-killing way...
What I was communicating did NOT lead to the positive response from him I’d been hoping for. In fact, my actions guaranteed he’d pull away or leave. It was just too much for too long – you’ll know what I mean if you’ve ever done these things yourself...
Things like trying to change him because we had different habits and interests, ambushing him when I needed to talk instead of making sure he was in a good frame of mind to hear me out, bringing to him all of my anxiety and disappointment in the relationship instead of letting him know how much he was doing RIGHT...
I was basically being an emotionally immature, lazy, neurotic mess, and despite the fact that he wanted to marry me (and I’d said no – a minor technicality that made him lose all motivation on top of our other drama), he soon found he had better things to do.
And before I knew what happened, he was gone.
It was the most devastating experience of my life.
We were apart for four long years.
For four years we were broken up with almost zero contact, and during that time he met, moved in with, and became ENGAGED TO another woman.
I cried an ocean. I couldn’t get over it. I imagined I saw them everywhere. I dreamed of what they were doing WHEN THEY WERE DOING IT – and thought I was going crazy.
I felt so utterly hopeless that I sought help from all kinds of practitioners – therapists, hypnotists, psychics – I even went to a Shaman to have a “soul retrieval” ceremony done, to get my soul back from him...
And I dated – A LOT. But it wasn’t any fun. And it only made me miss him more. No one felt “right” in the way that he had. Everyone else bored me...
I thought that I’d NEVER find the kind of compatibility or love I shared with him, and I was afraid that I was DOOMED to live my life alone.
I was so heartbroken when we parted that I made it my mission in life to understand relationships. I went on a spiritual quest to unravel and master the mysteries of love...
As a result, I took several workshops, sought out experts, and read every book and relationship study I could get my hands on. I trained with an international relationship institute, and was soon leading one of their programs.
And I quickly realized where I’d gone wrong...
Despite being in love with him, I hadn’t made my husband feel unconditionally loved (something men require...). In fact, I’d done just the opposite – making him feel criticized just for being him. I hadn’t made him feel appreciated enough. And I hadn’t managed my emotions in a healthy way to allow the positive feelings between us to grow.
I could have still communicated what I needed to him – I just could have done it with so much more respect and dignity toward him and our relationship.
And I kicked myself for it, and paid the ultimate
Luckily, to my utter amazement – the heavens brought him back!
I instantly applied everything I’d learned. And our “new” relationship was light years beyond what it had been before. Though we were the same people with the same astrology charts we’d always had, it was like a totally different, completely BETTER relationship.
He was so impressed with the changes in me, that he told me he couldn’t believe how much I’d matured in our time apart.
But it wasn’t TIME that had healed me. It was KNOWLEDGE.
And it was all worth it, because those years of
pain and loneliness made me do the hard work of learning everything I needed to know to make a
relationship a success.
What You Don’t Know About Relationships Can Hurt You…
I shudder to think how I almost missed out on the man who was my destiny – and my “near miss” at love caused me to look for ways I could share what I learned with other women.
Because the truth is, as an astrologer, I’ve coached and worked with THOUSANDS of women who were in the same place I was.
Women like me, who hadn’t learned how to “do” relationships, and consequently DESTROYED things with someone who was otherwise perfect for them.
They turned to the stars for comfort and help because they were either alone and worried that they’d never find the “the one” for them… or they were with a man they were just SURE was the man “meant” for them, but they no longer felt happy with him, and couldn’t figure out where the good times had gone...
They came to me hoping to discover some celestial, otherworldly reason for their lack of success with men.
And sometimes I could give them that.
But most of the time, the answers they were seeking weren’t in the stars at all.
Because, like me, they were often making dangerous mistakes that were virtually guaranteeing they’d NEVER have long-term happiness with a man – no matter how right he was for them or what their stars said.
That’s right – most women I worked with were sabotaging their dreams of love with a man. But they didn’t even know it!
Just like me, they didn’t know what they didn’t know...
It soon became clear to me that the part of my astrology session that helped a woman the most WASN’T the part about her astrology chart, it was when I shared a relationship principle or tool that could fix what she was dealing with.
It was amazing...
Usually just by tweaking something small, or adjusting her approach just a little bit, she could dramatically change what was happening.
She just didn’t know there was another way.
So, I’ve spent a great deal of time in my private practice explaining to women what they’re doing wrong, and how to do what’s right to turn their situation around.
Soon, women were asking if they could call me for relationship advice, separate from my readings.
This happened so often I finally started saying yes, and without even trying, my RELATIONSHIP COACHING career was born.
And suddenly, with the guidance I gave them, my clients started seeing real changes in their relationships.
So many of them said to me, “Why haven’t I heard this BEFORE?” or “If only I’d known this years ago, I wouldn’t have wasted so much time and effort...”
The same information has WORKED WITH EVERYONE – no matter the circumstances. Whether a woman was just dating someone new, living with someone, a newlywed, or married and mired in resentment for decades, women from all walks of life were quickly turning their relationships around for the better.
Even women on the verge of divorce have been able to experience tremendous transformation in their marriages in mere days or weeks – all without their husbands having to even know what they’re doing.
I’ve literally witnessed woman after woman
go from being confused and lost in her relationship, to becoming a “relationship Jedi”
– feeling empowered, knowing exactly what to do, able to handle anything that comes up with
her man, and getting back to the bliss...
The Big Mistakes That Doom A
In order to get to “bliss” with a man – even if he’s the man MEANT FOR YOU, first you need to STOP making some of the biggest, most common mistakes that DOOM relationships.
There are THREE CLASSIC MISTAKES I see women making when they’re struggling to improve a relationship with a man (and I made them all...). And all three tend to have the nasty, disappointing outcome of backfiring – making their men pull away, shut down, or even LEAVE...
Mistake #1: Trying To “Fix” Him
Because so many women simply don’t truly understand men or relationships, they commonly think what’s wrong with their relationship with a man is, um, well...
So, they set out to “enlighten” him about what he’s doing “WRONG” in the relationship.
Have you ever done this? Try to get your man to CHANGE… thinking that if only he did something differently, like worked less, or were more talkative, or more helpful, or made more money, or were more generous, or more sexual, or more social, or more SOMETHING, then everything would be fine.
But what you don’t realize is that by trying to get a man to be MORE of anything than he already is, you’re making him feel like he’s NOT ENOUGH... or that he’s failing... or not making you, his woman, happy.
Which is a very dangerous way to make a man feel...
Here’s the good news – men WANT to make us happy.
They really do! It makes them happy.
So, when you constantly tell him all the ways he’s making you unhappy, it makes him unhappy.
And instead of it motivating him to do as you’re asking, he’ll lose his inspiration around you because his efforts will feel pointless.
If a man has ever told you, “You’re impossible to please,” “Nothing’s never enough for you,” or “You’ll never be happy...” this is why.
If he feels this way, it’s virtually guaranteed he’ll cease trying to do anything for the relationship, and will even stop participating as much in the things you HAVE BEEN happy with... and then you’ll REALLY have a problem on your hands.
Here’s where it really gets tricky: You’ll become so anxious by how disconnected he’s become that you’ll beg, plead and cry in a desperate effort to get his attention, which only tells him he’s REALLY blowing it and making you MISERABLE, and that you’d probably be much happier without him.
So, thinking it's his last chance to show his love for you and make you happy – he’ll go elsewhere.
Yikes... not the outcome you’d hoped for at all!
Mistake #2: Trying To Diagnose And Fix Your Own Relationship – Without Making Him Part Of The Process
Another typical mistake I see women making in my work ALL THE TIME is that of analyzing and assessing what THEY think is WRONG with a relationship, and then presenting their FINDINGS to their man - all without involving him in the process...
We’ve all been guilty of this. You know, you run around and tell all of your girlfriends every nuance and detail about what’s happening – or not happening - with your man.
What he said, what he did... what you said, what you did... what he DIDN’T – but SHOULD’VE said or done... What you WISH he’d said or done...
All of your friends weigh in on what they think of the extremely personal details of your every conversation and interaction with your man.
As if that wasn’t enough, you then talk it to death with your family.
You journal about it all.
You read tons of books and highlight and dog-ear
the parts that fit your situation.
You quote Oprah, the latest Yahoo homepage relationship article, and your old boyfriend, and he’s STRANGELY not inspired by what you tell him.
In fact, quite the opposite happens for him...
He feels so ashamed and humiliated that you’ve involved other people in what he thought was HIS relationship – that whenever he so much as looks at you he sees an army of disapproving friends, relatives, neighbors, coworkers, and mere acquaintances behind you, all sniggering and sneering at him, whispering amongst themselves about what an idiot he is... and letting you know you could do so much better than to spend another minute with him.
In other words, you’ve crushed his ego publicly with your entire social circle, and now, not only can he not face YOU – he can’t imagine facing anyone in your life ever again...
And because you went to others with your relationship concerns BEFORE going to him, clearly you felt their opinions mattered more than HIS, leading him to believe that you respect or admire him less than ANYONE else in your life.
If he sticks around at this point (which is
doubtful), the best you can hope for is that he becomes completely distant and
uncooperative... making you process and evaluate HIM and what he’s saying and
doing or not saying or doing all the more!
Therapy is an amazing resource for learning about yourself – and what happened to you in your formative years to make you the person you are today and to lead you to have the strengths and weaknesses that you have.
It can be extremely helpful for you and a man to learn these things about each other.
The hope is that therapy will assist you and a man in understanding each other better, allowing you to have greater compassion and support for one another, and the knowledge of how each of you is sensitive or “emotionally fragile” so that you can avoid stepping on any of each other’s “land mines,” thereby allowing you to be as close as possible and avoid conflict.
And sometimes this happens.
But sometimes something much worse happens.
All too often, couples use therapy as a place to “drudge up” all of the hurts and resentments of the past.
They look to the therapist to validate all the ways their partner has “wronged” them, “let them down” and ruined things for them both.
Instead of going to therapy to LEARN what to do, they seek validation from the therapist that they are RIGHT and their partner is WRONG, and now they have a professional to back them up!
In other words, it can become downright war.
Things two people would never otherwise say to one another, they’ll say in therapy.
It takes a very special therapist to keep this stuff from happening.
But still, it does.
It can also be enormously challenging – and
costly – to get a partner to go
Or they go for a while, but quit when things get tense, leaving their partner feeling abandoned and unsupported.
It’s rare that both people want to go at the same time, to the same therapist, for the same number of sessions...
So, the topic itself can be one that creates feelings of betrayal and disappointment, even if they never actually go.
So, if therapy isn’t the answer, what is?
This is where it gets exciting... An enormously respected marriage study by the Gottman Institute (in fact, it’s the most rigorous, scientific study ever done) has discovered that it’s INFORMATION – not therapy – that saves relationships.
Knowing what to do, when to do it, and HOW.
And this stuff can be learned – by
anyone. And usually it’s enough if just ONE person in a couple learns what
to do, and leads the way.
The Rules Of Relationships Are Universal And Can Be Learned By Anyone, Anywhere...
Because of my personal experience and that of so many of my clients, I am convinced that you can learn the simple, fundamental, basic ABC’s of relationships, that would allow you to create a ROCK-SOLID FOUNDATION with a man, and a life filled with stability and respect...
You can learn these “road rules” for getting along, and enjoy each other again, bringing back the laughter and fun and GOOD FEELINGS you once had...
If you’ve started to wonder if maybe you’re missing something – some gene, or pheromone, or KARMA that other women have that has enabled them to figure out WHAT TO DO and HOW TO BE so that their love lives just work, you’re not...
You’ve just been missing some information.
Here’s the best part – science backs me up! It’s not just my experience that says you can do this, it’s been proven in a laboratory setting what works in relationships and what doesn’t. By learning what social scientists have discovered, you can improve your chances of being happily married or partnered for life – by as much as 50%! (Meaning HALF of all divorces could be avoided – easily!)
This can be done by anyone with an open mind and willing heart.
That’s right – even you.
The “rules” of relationships work in ALL relationships.
Break these rules and end up with a broken relationship.
Honor them and end up with a successful relationship.
All you have to do is learn the rules.
The Proven, Time-Tested, Foolproof Ways To Make Things Right - In Any Relationship
So now for the good news – I don’t care who you are or what’s going on in your love life, if you and a man ever once enjoyed a good thing, you can again.
Not only am I a happily married lady now (married over a decade), I’ve been sharing this information for a very long time with women from all walks of life, and I’m here to tell you, what works in relationships WORKS.
I’ve seen literally thousands of women transform their relationships and marriages – quickly and more easily than they ever imagined was possible.
Couples who had grown distant and cool toward each other regained their affection.
Couples who fought all the time about EVERYTHING, stopped fighting. And when they slipped (‘cause nobody’s perfect), their arguments went from lasting days to lasting mere minutes.
Women who felt that their husbands didn’t care how they felt and wouldn’t help them with anything, soon were amazed to see them suddenly happily mowing the lawn, and doing the shopping, and washing the dishes...
One woman even called me after a seminar to tell me that within a week of learning how to do what works with men and relationships her husband had brought her breakfast in bed – that he’d cooked himself. This was something he’d NEVER done in over ten years of marriage...
It’s been so gratifying to help women create and hold onto the love they’ve longed for with a man that it’s made me want to help as many women as possible.
That’s why I decided to compile all my best advice that I’ve been giving to my clients for years, and create a 2 disk CD program: “Soulmate Secrets – The Essential Relationship Skills Happy Couples Use To Stay Close And Connected.”
This CD set is literally all my best advice that my clients have been using (and paying big bucks for) for YEARS. In fact, it first started as a “refresher” course for my clients, so they could take what I told them in their private sessions and replay them over at over at home, so they can make sure to benefit from all they’ve learned.
I’ll teach you the most common relationship traps that couples fall into – the top issues I’ve heard from my years of working with women and their relationships, and how to AVOID THEM entirely. This will help you solve the problems you’re having in the present, prevent problems in the future, and stay close and connected through life’s challenges.
But even more important than solving your problems, I’ll teach you how to create that “Soulmate feeling’” all the time… So you’ll feel so good together and have so much goodwill between you that you don’t have to worry about “solving” anything ever again!
After all, part of being someone’s “Soulmate” is knowing how to make them feel like their needs are being completely met, and that you really understand and appreciate them. When you feel that way, and he feels that way, you both feel like you’ve met your celestial match.
The good news is, I can teach you have to make him feel that way. And I promise you, if you do this for him, he’ll do so for you... so you’ll both feel taken care of. And it’s MUCH, MUCH EASIER than you’d think.
It’s so easy that you can learn it in less
than three hours. All for less than the
These skills are incredibly
powerful. Just ask any of the happy couples you know.
How I’ll Take You From
I’ve packed the very best relationship skills and techniques that I know on this program, and I can’t wait to share them with you.
This is literally the best advice out there. Not only have I been studying (and using!) this material for fifteen years, but I’ve seen it transform thousands of relationships firsthand.
How To Know If My “Soulmate Secrets” Program Is For You...
If you’re tired of your relationships ending badly, or being unsatisfied by the men you are with, and are longing to finally find your “Soulmate” and feel utterly, completely, totally satisfied in your relationship… then this is the program for you.
If you’ve spent your life being hurt and disappointed by love, and feel like you’ve tried everything you can to create that magic feeling in your relationship… but nothing you do seems to work for long and you’re starting to lose hope… then this program is for you.
If you are in a relationship and are starting to doubt him, or feel like he is doubting YOU (and neither of you understand each other any more, and it feels like he just doesn’t care about what you need they way he used to)… then this program is for you.
You can TAKE CHARGE of making your relationships work, and AMP UP your compatibility with real-world, tested, scientifically proven strategies, and I can help.
One thing that’s struck me time and again while sharing these truths with women, is that – no matter how desperate their situation, or how seemingly OFF TRACK their relationships, they’re quickly able to see the power of this advice, and start getting REAL RESULTS with their man...
It’s really moving, actually.
Before my eyes a woman will have a moment of awakening, and be able to see a new possibility for herself and the man she loves that forever alters the way she is with him, and thus, the way they are together.
She simply cannot do things the way she’s always previously done them. If she sticks with it, doing what works becomes as effortless as breathing – she’ll barely recognize herself and what her life with her man was like BEFORE she knew better.
Seriously – this was my experience, too. Once I knew what to do that worked, it became second nature. And the rare times I’d slip into an old behavior that DIDN’T WORK, I was reminded how EASILY I could harm and weaken the precious relationship I enjoyed, and put a barrier between us that hadn’t been there moments before...
Soon, when the temptation to be lazy and screw up would creep over me, I’d instantly remember the bad feelings that had caused us in the past, and would easily regain my strength, and continue to do what made us both feel good...
It got so that doing what works was so much less WORK and so much more fun than doing what didn’t.
And over time we grew to feel only the special celestial magic that our charts promised, but that my actions had screwed up so long ago...
Because I want as many women as possible to benefit from this program, I’ve decided to price this program at only $69.97. (For a slight extra fee of $4.99 you can also order the CD or DVD versions if you prefer to have a hard copy of the program. And I'll cover all the shipping costs myself if you live in the U.S., a small additional charge will apply to non-U.S. orders). And of course, it comes with my better-than-money-back “I’ll take all the risk” Guarantee…
Here’s How It Works…
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The whole process takes just a few minutes. Once you have placed your order, you'll be instantly emailed an invoice as well as a link and password to allow you to access to all of your materials. If you prefer hard products of the program, you can indicate that on the order form once you click on one of the order buttons above, and the double CD set will be shipped in the mail to you for a small extra fee of $4.99 (postage included if you live in the U.S.) and you'll be listening to them in just a few days. (A small additional shipping and handling charge will apply to non-U.S. orders).
When you get the CDs, I suggest you listen to them several times....
I’m sharing a tremendous amount of cutting-edge
relationship research, information, tips, techniques, and real-life stories of things other women done to turn
their relationships around, so recommend you listen to them regularly for a while until the material becomes second
nature for you, too.
What Real Women Have To Say About “Soulmate Secrets:”
Aren’t they sweet? Do you see why I’m so excited to offer this to you? Many of the most inspiring, touching moments of my life have come from sharing this material. Seriously – I don’t know that I’ll ever have another program so full of this much powerful, life changing information on how to make a relationship with a man be the absolute BEST it can be!
This has been my favorite relationship advice for over a decade. I honestly don’t know where I’d be today without it. It has transformed my relationship not just with my husband, but with everyone else that matters in my life as well – my family, my dearest friends, my colleagues...
And I know it can do the same for you. This program contains all of the secrets to creating a happy, satisfying, connected relationship…
And it makes it so easy and accessible, that I just know you’ll see amazing results almost instantly.
You’ll learn how to lead the way with your man, without having to “change” him at all. Instead, he will change his behavior because he feels so supported and understood.
You’ll learn how to communicate and work with him (without getting your friends and family entrenched in every detail and drama) so that you both feel respected and prioritized.
And you won’t have to wait until all the stars align for you to find your Soulmate. Instead, you’ll learn how to make the best of what is “written in the stars” create an experience together that is “out of this world.”
You have SO much more power to turn your relationships around than you can possibly imagine. Today truly is a new day – the choice really is yours.
Don’t do what I did – please don’t lose the great love of your life, only to spend years heartbroken and alone, searching and searching and searching for answers when everything you need to know about any relationship with ANY man is contained on these CDs.
Seriously – I did all that so you don’t have to!
So check ‘em out. What have you got to lose?
I can’t wait to hear your happy ending...
In the meantime, may God and His planets and stars shower you with love!
P.S. I know how hard it can be to believe things can ever work out with a man you love to your core. Believe me – you now know I’ve BEEN there... I consider learning what I’m sharing on “Soulmate Secrets” to be some of the most sacred, precious, valuable information of my life and I’m very excited and honored to be able to share it all with you. I really encourage you to check it out. You have nothing to lose and so much love to gain...
P.P.S. The audio files will available to you the moment your order process is complete, so you can get the insights and answers you need right away... If you order hard products as well, the CDs will be shipped in a plain brown box to protect your privacy... So don’t worry that anyone in your life like your neighbors, coworkers, roommates, postal worker, or MAN will think you’ve ordered some nutty NEW AGE products (or, even more likely, making them want to “borrow” them before you’ve had a chance to check them out for yourself! :))